Need help to write a one page essay on relationship management

After watching ;Daniel Goleman Explains Emotional Intelligence, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZsdqBC1tHTA

Discuss the relationship of your emotional intelligence and your effectiveness in developing relationships and working with others. ;Base your discussion on deep reflection of your past experiences of influencing others at work, in your close personal relationships and on the following questions: ;

Self-awareness:

• Do you understand your emotions?
• Do you know what your strengths, weaknesses, drives, values and goals are and do you recognize their impact on others while using gut feelings to guide decisions?

Relationship Management:

• Are you skilled at guiding and motivating others with a compelling vision?
• Do you have a wide range of tactics to persuade others?
• Do you help develop others’ abilities through feedback and guidance?
• Are you a skilled change agent that is able to initiate, manage, and leading in a new direction?
• Are you skilled at conflict management and successful at resolving disagreements?
• Are you skilled at cultivating and maintaining a web of relationships?
• Are you able to bring people together to work effectively as a team? ;

Self-regulation:

• Are you able to control or redirect your disruptive emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances?

Social skill:

• Are you skillful at managing relationships in order to move people in the desired direction?

Empathy:

• Are you skilled at recognizing, acknowledging and considering other people’s feelings especially when making decisions?